It's that festive time of the year – you can just feel the merriment and that lovely sense of nostalgia in the air.

In this modern age, we still love to stick to our traditions - we all have them, and it's possibly that one time of the year where we reach out to our friends and family. Sending an e-card is never the same. Getting a digital card, email or text cannot replace the pleasure of receiving a hand-written card.

There are no hard or fast rules when it comes to writing a card, but lovely paper, writing a sweet message on stationery is something that's truly special - something we can keep, hang on the tree or display on the mantle.

Of course, we need to consider many things when choosing a note. Regardless of faith or beliefs, everyone loves getting a note (we have such few occasions to receive beautiful personal notes).

A few things to consider when it comes to the etiquette or festive notes:

-If you're going to send a note by post, make sure you send it in good time. The postal service often has printed cut-off dates so make sure to note those down 

-When you pick your notes, make sure you get a small selection, as Christmas cards may not be appropriate for every person you're sending to. 

Chanukah

-There are some rules when it comes to addressing couples, but our modern age forgives those rules as we've become more casual (in this case, a very good thing indeed). So, if you are sending to a couple, make sure to include both names as they should share the pleasure.

-Humour is what makes life so enjoyable, but it may not be entirely appropriate for every person you're sending to. Granny and Grandpa should probably get more tasteful notes than a close friend or your partner.

-If you're not posting your note, then make sure it's personal for any gift you may be including with your card.

-If you are the recipient of a lovely little note, then proudly display the cards and enjoy them.

Festivus

-This is a magical time of the year and should be enjoyed, no matter if you celebrate Christmas, Chanukah or Festivus (for the rest of us). A few simple little reminders in social graces - notes should be relished whether you give or receive. This is, after all, the most wonderful time of the year! Happy holidays, everyone!

Your Mistress of Manners - Dana Gornitzki is the Editor of Mien Magazine. Join her for personal instruction on how to make small talk over the festive season here. Explore our gift guide for Stationery and letter-writing fans here.